Anonymous sent: Hey my and my ldr bf have met. But he never calls or Skypes. He says he finds it awkward to talk to me when his parents are around. But now I'm scared he's not gonna visit and if he doesn't our relationship won't work. He says he is but the date keeps changing and he doesn't have anything planned out. What do I do?

Hello! I understand how he feels about not calling when his parents aren’t around. Have you tried maybe calling at night when they’re asleep? My boyfriend feels the same way so we only really call at night! I understand how much you must want to see him and miss him, but all I can really tell you is to be patient. The date may be changing so much because of money issues or other things he can’t change! While you’re waiting to see each other again, you could always do little things like send each other written letters or small packages. You could even just type out letters and send them to each other via skype! In ldrs the little things help a lot. c: Good luck, stay strong! xx

- Carly

P.s. I’m sorry it took so long to answer this, we have both been very busy!

teardropsfalllikerain sent: I live in florida and he lives in Missouri He broke up with me 2 weeks ago because of the distance We were together for 9 months and visited eachother every two months He said last week that he still has feelings for me but doesn't want to get back together. He still wants to be friends but won't even talk to me because he says he wants space He has been acting so mean and I miss him. What do you think would be best to do in this situation? I'm heart broken. I was willing to go there for college

I know how it feels, a while back my long distance relationship ended. He may need some space, or just can’t handle the distance much anymore, which is hard to accept. Personally, it may be best to lay off for a bit and hopefully talk to him about it and ask him why. Its extremely hard to face, but long distance relationships aren’t for everyone. I wish you two the best.


pathological-psychology sent: Hi. I love a girl who's more than 6000 miles away from me :/ the other side of the world. It's a constant pain, even more because she doesn't love me back, but at least we're best friends. Anyway, I just wanted to share that story and say that I do like your blog. See you around, in this reality or in another. ;)

I’m so sorry about that! At least you’re best friends though, that’s always great! Thank you so much for your story and I’m so glad you enjoy our blog! Have a nice day xx



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